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      <image:title>Kathy Jaffe, LCSW | Therapist in Redlands, CA | Women's Therapy - I’m Kathy Jaffe, LCSW, a therapist in Redlands, CA, and I work with women who are smart, self-aware, and exhausted from knowing exactly what’s wrong and still feeling it anyway.   I’ve spent years sitting with women in that gap — between insight and change, between the life that looks right and the one that actually fits. I know that gap personally. It took my own losses, my own body breaking down, and a lot of my own therapy to stop thinking my way around pain and learn to move through it instead.   That’s what brought me here. And it’s what I bring into the room.   I work from the belief that your system already knows how to heal — that the anxiety, the grief, the rage, the parts you’ve been taught to hide are not problems to fix but wisdom waiting to be heard. My approach draws on interpersonal neurobiology and somatic work — your whole self, not just your thoughts.   I’m also a student of improv and tarot — because healing without play and mystery is just homework.   All of you is welcome here. Especially the parts you’ve been apologizing for.   Learn more about working with me →</image:title>
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      <image:caption>If you are ready to explore this gently, without forcing or fixing, trauma-informed therapy can offer a steady place to begin. You do not have to rush. You do not have to do this alone.</image:caption>
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